Should we stain the slate backsplash for a more uniform look to match the new kitchen renovation done by the previous owners in 2019?
Asked by Liam Ginnish 
2 months ago
Last Updated: October 21, 2024
So, the people who lived here before us upgraded the kitchen back in 2019. They really went all out with top-notch materials, and honestly, I just can’t justify the cost of redoing a kitchen that’s basically brand new. My husband is a big fan of the cabinets, I’m all about the counters and sink, but we’re both not feeling the backsplash. Has anyone ever tried staining slate before? I’m thinking if we can make it a more consistent grey color, it might blend in better. And as for that yellow paint on the walls, we’re thinking of swapping it out for some moodier wallpaper soon.
I agree with your thoughts on the backsplash. Could it be real slate? A lighter color might contrast nicely with the countertops and cabinets, but if you’re into a darker look because of the moody wallpaper, consider using a solid or nearly solid material to reduce busyness in color and number of grout lines.
It’s actual slate, but very porous and rough making it difficult to clean. I do love the moody look, but since it’s the north side of the house, there isn’t much natural light. I agree that a lighter colored backsplash would help brighten up the kitchen. The moody wallpaper is only above the window, the rest of the kitchen is open or cabinets, so it won’t feel too heavy with the wallpaper. However, it does seem a bit heavy with the backsplash. Appreciate your insights!
If it was up to me, I’d use chalk paint on them. If you end up not liking it, you can easily wipe it off. The chalk paint only becomes sealed once you apply “wax” and can be wiped away. If you prefer the stained look, you can add a dark wax for that stained appearance.
I feel like you’re heading in the right direction, but honestly, I personally believe that the size of the slate is what’s making it feel dated. Smaller tiles or long, skinny ones in a straight pattern would give it a more modern look. Swapping out the pulls and knobs for something less traditional could also make a big difference in updating the space.
Jennifer irard oh wow, I never considered that, but I’ve noticed that all the tiles I like are smaller. We’ve also chatted about updating the pulls and knobs. Such an affordable way to make a huge impact!
Have you thought about using a high-quality laminate splashback to cover the tiles?
Maybe we could add some under cabinet lighting to bring more light into the space. I totally get where you’re coming from – renovating a kitchen can be a tough decision, but it’s important to feel happy with the end result.
I recommend Romabio for the slate.
Someone else recommended that. I just checked it out and it looks fantastic! I might give it a shot and if it doesn’t turn out great, I can always try one of the other suggestions. Thanks!
We used it for our entire front exterior. We also had rock as well.
Also remember it takes 5 days to fully cure so feel free to wash it off before then if you’re not a fan.
I completely agree. The cabinets are great; it’s really the backsplash that could use some sprucing up.
You should definitely take a look at All-In-One Paint by Heirloom Traditions. They’ve got some great videos showcasing their products on different tiles.
My folks have actually changed their backsplash a total of 3 times. Personally, I think it’s best to take down the current backsplash and replace it with something you truly love, rather than trying to cover it up or paint over it.
Why not cover your countertops with cardboard to protect them and replace the tile with something brighter and more modern? Your kitchen is almost new and just needs a fabulous backsplash. Demoing it with a hammer won’t take long.
We initially thought it would be a simple job, but the contractors who remodeled our bathroom insisted that the cabinets and counters had to be destroyed in the process. After reading all the feedback here, I’m starting to wonder if they were just looking for an opportunity to renovate our kitchen as well.
Cheryl, with the right tools and protection for the countertops, you can start at the bottom and use a vibratory tool to cut along the counter grout line, using large stir sticks as a guide. It definitely requires a steady hand and patience. Many guys tend to rush through it, but changing out just the backsplash is actually not difficult—it just requires a bit of patience!
If the contractors told you that, they probably didn’t know what they were talking about or were just trying to get more money out of the job. Trust me, you can change the backsplash without causing damage.
If it were me, I’d opt for a very pale grey for the backsplash.
I’m a huge fan of the whole look. It just flows so well!
You know, you could totally roller-paint the tiles any color you like. Personally, I’d hang the wallpaper first and then make a decision.
How about using copper sheeting to cover the backsplash? It’s thin enough to keep the outlets in place and easy to remove without damage.
Oh wow, I think I’d be head over heels! I’ll run the idea by my husband and see what he thinks. Thanks a bunch!
I’m so glad you’re on board with the concept. I was thinking maybe a cute French cafe nearby. Please share photos no matter which route you decide to take.
That sounds like it would be absolutely stunning
There are high-quality laminates available that can be placed over the existing tiles or painted in any color you like. Consider using Benjamin Moore Advance paint over their Stix primer for a durable finish.
I wish my kitchen looked this good! I’d keep everything else the same and just change the tile. Maybe consider a brighter color for the wall instead of wallpaper?
I’m a big fan of wallpaper. I’ve already decorated the adjacent rooms. It’s removable, so I can change my mind often. 😂
Hey there! Have you thought about using limewash paint on the tile? It works great on porous surfaces like brick and slate, and you can customize the color. Once you find the right shade, seal it for a perfect finish.
Thank you! I will definitely check that out!
That backsplash is fantastic.
My husband did the same when we first moved in. I believe my constant complaints have finally gotten to him! 😂
Now that’s a supportive husband right there. 😂
Totally agree! I’m all for it.
I’m not a big fan of slate in kitchens due to the maintenance it requires. It’s tough to keep clean and needs regular sealing. I’d suggest swapping it out for something easier to maintain, along with updating the cabinet hardware for a fresh look.
There are plenty of helpful tile DIY tutorials on YouTube. Take your time and prep well for the best results. Protect your counters and cabinets before making any changes to avoid any accidental damage.
We’ve been discussing this, but it’s likely beyond what we can handle right now, especially with our limited free time.
How about tiling over the existing tile?
It’s pretty rough, huh? Do you think using a bunch of mortar would help?
The products to use depend on what’s currently there. It also matters if the surface is glossy, but I can’t see that from my phone. I would suggest applying a thin coat of thinset first to smooth everything out. Then, once that dries, you can install another coat to set the tiles in place.
I wouldn’t recommend doing that. It might end up looking bad and causing issues with your outlets. If someone suggests a quick fix, they might not have your best interest at heart, haha. Honestly, consider removing it and retiling with something you like, or just leaving it as is. Even if you don’t like the color, keeping the quality high is better than opting for a temporary solution like stick-on tiles or painting over it. It could end up looking cheap and ruin a perfectly good tile job.
If I had to guess the year, I would have thought the early 90s, not 2019. Maybe it’s all the brown tones.
All you really need is a new backsplash! Just demo the old one and start fresh – it’s going to look amazing!
You could simply re-tile over the top….. no need to remove anything….. choose your preferred color and have fun !!!
Are you serious, ?
It looks really nice to me
I painted my backsplash some time ago, and it turned out great! I sanded the old tile with 60-grit sandpaper, applied a bonding primer (Kilz brand), and then used glossy finish paint (Krylon pure white and pure black for a checkered look). It has held up really well and looks much better than the old pinky/sandstone color I had before!
I really like the countertops and wood cabinets! Have you thought about using fusion mineral paint for the backsplash?
If you’re planning on putting up wallpaper, I suggest doing that first. As for the tile, consider getting some brown wrapping paper and a can of spray paint in your desired color. Spray the paper, let it dry, and then tape it to the tile to see if you like the color or not.
I really like this idea! It helps reduce the risk involved.
That’s right, that’s why I brought it up. If you have a specific wallpaper in mind and really want that specific one, it might be better to go with that. I personally prefer spending on spray paint and craft paper instead of priming and painting the tile, only to end up not liking it and having to start over again. Paper seems like the easier option.
Try staining the grout black. That might be the solution.
That’s a fantastic idea!
What do you think would be good to use for staining? Loving the idea!!
Was at the flooring stores where they sell grout stain.
Oh yes, that would really complement the granite.
Instead of black, which would be as noticeable as the white, I’d opt for a dark brown or the deepest shade in the tile, to help the grout lines blend in as much as possible.
Fantastic suggestion to do away with the light and distracting lines.
This kitchen is just so lovely and inviting.
I would definitely lighten up that backsplash; it’s all quite dark.
I like the backsplash, but I understand that personal taste plays a big role. If it’s not your style, that’s okay.
There’s one thing that bothers me and I’d want to fix it. The window trim. The jamb extensions and window stool match the wall color, but the casing matches the cabinets.
Once you add the wallpaper, it will really stand out. That’s just how I see it.
I like the backsplash and the countertops separately but when they are together, they clash. I think I’d change something about the window and paint.
Adding a new backsplash could really brighten up the space. It’s a cost-effective way to lighten up the entire room.
I suggest putting up the wallpaper first and living with the change for a month or so before deciding on the backsplash.
Just a suggestion, try out the moody wallpaper first. Then you can decide how you feel about the backsplash.
I totally agree ☝️ ..then reevaluate afterwards, but keep in mind it’s porous if you choose to stain it
Peel and stick wallpaper could be a great option if you figure out how to get the backing texture just right.
Covering natural stone with a plasticized paper just doesn’t seem like a good idea for several reasons. It’s like putting a bandaid on a beautiful material.
I think it’s smart to consider a temporary fix while you figure out the look you want. Makes perfect sense to me.
Let me tell you – as someone who’s been in the renovation and remodeling business for over 40 years, what you’re suggesting is not a great idea. It’s like something out of a DIY show for amateurs.
I’d consider replacing the backsplash with something that suits your taste better.
I’ve never come across staining tile before…if you do decide to go that route, I’d love to see a picture!
You could consider using a PVC material that resembles pressed tin. It’s thin, super easy to install, and can be painted.
Sure, I can definitely help with that! Just let me know how you’d like me to rephrase it.
Removing the tile should be fairly easy since there is no backsplash on the counter.
I’ve been reading all these comments! It might be a lot of work, but not impossible! When I feel overwhelmed by too many options, I usually take a step back, wait for 30 days, and then start accessorizing for another 30 days. That way, I can truly decide if changes are necessary or if I can live with it. The kitchen looks beautiful as it is. ood luck with your decision and please keep us updated.
The backsplash is amazing! It really adds to the beauty of the kitchen. If changes are needed, hopefully not permanent ones.
I would change the yellow to charcoal gray…so pretty! ❤️❤️
Oh wow, that backsplash is stunning, and so are the cabinets. However, I think a nice greige color would also look fantastic.
I saw a post in this group where someone painted their slate tile and it turned out amazing. They used a paint called Ben from Benjamin Moore.
Just make sure to protect the countertops and remove the backsplash to replace it… I think a lighter backsplash is a good idea.
Just let it be….
Et ready to say goodbye to those messy backsplashes with the help of your new best friends: microwave, instapot, air fryer, cappuccino machine, electric kettle, and meat slicer!
Can I take a look at a sample of your moody wallpaper first? It could really steal the spotlight and make the backsplash fade into the background, or it might clash with the current backsplash and make us consider switching to a different tile instead of staining or painting the current one.
It looks amazing just the way it is.